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With so many communication options available today, it can be hard to know which is the best way to reach out to someone. But sometimes, the simplest option is the best one. A text message can be a great way to open up a deeper conversation with someone you want to connect or reconnect with. Here’s how you can use texting to your advantage when trying to open a new conversation with a prospect or past client.

During a recent By Referral Only Member Wisdom Wednesday, we took a poll, and more than half indicated resistance to making follow-up calls. Instead of fighting it, learn how to be encouraged and work with this resistance by doing one simple thing first… send a text.

Watch this 3 min clip where our founder, Joe Stumpf, shows you how to remove your self-interest, make picking up that 400lb phone MUCH easier, and just have a wonderful conversation with the people you know.

 
If you want to start creating more opportunities and deeper conversations with the people you know, try this text message opener approach first. This is just one small example of the ways By Referral Only can help you push past the things that are holding you back from that next level of success. Our All-Access membership gives you access to powerful tools, trainings, resources, and AUTOMATED marketing systems that make it easy to connect with prospects and your sphere in new and interesting ways. Sign up today for your free tour and ask about a 30-day trial (available only for a limited time) and see how our community and systems can help you take your business to the next level. 

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  • Client Connection Campaigns (including our upcoming Summer Seller & Fall Connection Campaigns)
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  • Some campaigns help you deepen relationships and reconnect with your sphere
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